I feel like I’ve always been an introspective person. I had diaries growing up and all through college. When I was little, I would write out what I wanted to be, do, and have when I grew up. During grade school and college, I loved English class—especially when it involved writing personal essays and narratives.
After graduating college, I sort of fell off the writing train for a while. I was too busy working to maintain my Los Angeles apartment. Then, when my dad passed away and I moved back to Austin, I was too busy forming my company. My company, City Girl Savings, started as a blog, but a lot of that writing was tailored towards finances, fashion, and lifestyle. Nothing too personal.
It wasn’t until 2018 (the year I turned 30) that I started to get back to my writing roots via journaling. I was still working in corporate America and running my business on the side, but this was the year I decided I wanted to run my business full-time. I had a long way to go before I would be ready for that, but I put the stake in the ground. I knew that’s what I wanted my future to look like.
Once I knew I wanted to be a full-time business owner, I started investing in things that would help me learn how to get there. I signed up for an online course (I think it was called ‘Six Figure Alignment’?), and one of the requirements of the program was to journal: Journal the beliefs we wanted to be true about ourselves and our situation; journal the goals we had, and write them in a way that sounded like we’d already achieved them. I took the journaling assignment a step further and started a morning routine of journaling my thoughts, feelings, and hopes as well.
The benefits that have come over time through consistent journaling are truly amazing. Eventually, I was able to quit my corporate job and run City Girl Savings full-time. I was also able to see the growth in my thought patterns over time and to reach goals I wasn’t sure how I would reach. Most importantly, I’ve become a much more self-aware individual. As I write out the things that are on my mind, I can counter any negative thoughts with positive ones. In fact, one thing I like to do during my journaling routine every morning is list out the beliefs I want to be true about myself. Here are a few I always come back to:
I trust myself to take action, even if it’s uncomfortable.
I make an impact every day.
I am a confident, secure, independent woman.
I am surrounded by people who motivate and inspire me.
I am the kind of person who enjoys every aspect of life.
I am the kind of person who never stops learning, growing, and practicing gratitude.
I’m worthy of all the good that has come and will come to me.
Now, I journal every morning and have no intentions of stopping! Some days, especially when I’m filled with fear or anxiety, I journal multiple times. Getting those anxious thoughts out on paper helps minimize them. And, since I have all my journal entries dating back to 2018, I’m able to look back on old entries and feel pride and gratitude. I’ve come so far.
Journaling has helped me to know, love, and trust myself so much more than I ever had before. It’s a practice that I vow to continue doing as long as I’m capable.
Are you already an avid writer or journaler? Let me know! If not, I challenge you to give journaling a try for 30 days and see what magic happens. Drop a comment below if you accept this challenge!
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Theresa says
I’ve tried journaling for years, but just can’t seem to get the hang of it. I’ve bought all kinds of journals from the mundane to the ridiculous…lol
I’m in my late sixties now and would love to leave my family an idea if who I really am. My thoughts, ideas, dreams and aspirations. My mother died when I was nineteen and I knew almost nothing about her.
So I accept the 30 day journaling challenge!
Raya Reaves says
Love that you accepted the challenge! Maybe you should try typing out your journal entries?! That has helped me!
Dena Goldfine says
I love writing. But I too have gotten busy with life. Since July 2023, I have been writing things down more. Well I always take notes. I like to jot down my thoughts. But I am compelled to accept this 30 Day Journaling Challenge. I would also love to look back 10 years from now and celebrate I embraced my story and wrote it out for the world to hear. We all have a story to tell. ❤️💛💚
Raya Reaves says
“We all have a story to tell” – so true Dena!!
Ajana Britton says
I “journal” verbally & not daily. I typically have thoughts that go faster than my fingers can write. Additionally, most of those thoughts are in the wee hours of the morning.
So, in those moments, I pick up my phone and record voice texts to myself. At some point, I would like to transcribe them.
Raya Reaves says
I do that too sometimes! I also like to type out my journal entries because I can type faster than I write!
Brenda Cowan says
In 1997 after the death of my father, I started journaling. It was part of my healing process but I haven’t journaled in over 10 years. Your story has inspired me and I accept the challenge. I will journal for the next 30 days starting today!
Raya Reaves says
Yay Brenda! Let me know how it goes!!
Raya Reaves says
Love that you accepted the challenge! Maybe you should try typing out your journal entries?! That has helped me!
Marsha says
I will accept this challenge. I used to journal years ago and stopped for reasons unknown. Thank you for the reminder of just how much of a pleasure journaling is!
Raya Reaves says
So happy to hear you’ll be getting back into it!
Donna says
Journaling got me through a very dark, depressing time in my life. That was over 30 years ago. Now at 65, I find myself gravitating back to journaling, because no one has a CLUE what stresses I’m dealing with. Living alone, between relationships, empty nest, workplace drama, it’s all pointing towards a need for release. Journaling provides that for me…
Raya Reaves says
I’m so glad journaling can be that release for you – so important for all of us to have that!
Marsha says
I accept the challenge to journal every day, especially if I’m feeling anxiety, pain, or peace.
Raya Reaves says
Yes! Love that!!
Tanja Dixon says
I used to journal. Now with taking care of the grandchildren and my husband…it seems I don’t have time. I accept the 30 day challenge. I need to take more me time and what perfect way to start.
Raya Reaves says
I completely agree! You got this!
Danielle Tuwano says
Great article, Raya!
Raya Reaves says
Thank you so much!
Linda Williams says
I loved the article. I started seriously journaling July 2022 after my cousin gave me a beautiful journal to help me cope during a difficult season. Although I do not journal daily, I try to do it at least 3 times a week. I too love going back reading old entries and being thankful for change and progress!
I will try to be more cognizant about writing daily! Maybe even recording like one comment stated!!