About the Author

Whitney Weathers (she/her) is an award-winning educator who currently works in the non-profit sector as leader of diversity, equity, inclusion and justice. When she is not fighting the patriarchy, she is loving on her four amazing children and her one amazing husband.

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  1. That was a good message! One for me. Never been married but in some not so good relationships. It doesn’t matter the age because when you are in that comparison mode it can eat you up. Thank you, I am rekindling my relationship with God and myself.

  2. This was an amazing article! It was meant for me to see read this. Thank you for sharing such a persona story, testimony, your truth. I’m just separting from my husband of twenty five years this helped me so much. Thank you Sis!

  3. Wow this was a remarkably strong story. I read it till the end and then went back up to the beginning to see who wrote this powerful piece. I love the transparency and honesty and we all fall victim to Internet comparisons. Thank you thank you thank you sis

    • Bless you and thank you! It’s funny: we think we’re the only ones that feel a certain way, but that’s what keeps us bound.

  4. This message is desperately needed. I stopped all social media in 2019 and NEVER looked back. I chose not to be interested in anything but me and my son. Preach sis preach !

  5. Ma’am. Thank you so much for sharing this! I am inspired by your growth and transparency. Keep living your truth and letting God guide your path.

  6. You are amazing. I’m so proud of you. May God continue to bless you with ability to inspire others. I love you sis and congratulations on your article this was a really good read. Just patiently waiting on your book!!!

  7. Love this! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing, and for the reminder that “what God has for me is for me” and I am dishonoring Him and all that he has done for my life by comparing! God bless you, and may he continue to shine his light on your life!

  8. What a awesome inspirational story Whitney! So proud of you and making it through some trying seasons. But look at God!!!
    You went through what you did, to help others. 2Cor 1:3,4: Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort,
    4 who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. (2 Corinthians 1:3,4 ESV)

    Love you
    Sis Lorraine (Yarber) Dangerfield

  9. Wow! I can relate to share, don’t compare! I love to see the shift in your perspective, and to witness you walking in your power.

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