There was a time when I didn’t fully recognize the light within me. I doubted my worth, questioned my abilities, and allowed fear to overshadow my brilliance. But through moments of self-reflection and stillness, I began to see glimpses of my radiance shining through.
As I embraced a season of choosing joy, I realized my light was always there, waiting to be acknowledged and celebrated.
However, the limiting beliefs that threatened to dim its glow came alongside the recognition of my light. Voices of self-doubt whispered in my ear, telling me I wasn’t good enough or worthy of success. But I refused to let those beliefs define me. I challenged them head-on, replacing them with affirmations of my worthiness and potential. It wasn’t easy, but with each step forward, I felt my light shining brighter and more brilliantly than ever.
“Your light will irritate a lot of unhealed people…shine anyway.” This quote has become my guiding light, a reminder of the power and significance of my radiance.
After hosting a workshop at a women’s retreat about “mending a broken heart,” I received a note that read, “You are light!!! Don’t you ever forget that.” What had I said or done to make her write this note for ME?
In this pivotal moment of clarity, I realized that I wasn’t just an ordinary individual navigating life’s challenges—I was a beacon of hope, a source of inspiration for countless women facing difficult seasons in their lives.
I was supposed to shine anyway.
This revelation shook me to my core and ignited a fire within me to fully embrace my brilliance and share it with the world. The journey began.
I embraced my brilliance unapologetically, knowing that my light was meant to be shared with the world. No, it wasn’t always comfortable or easy, but it was liberating. I stood tall in my radiance, refusing to let anyone or anything dim my glow.
Of course, there were moments of self-doubt and self-sabotage, but my faith was stronger. I knew that there was something planted on the inside of me that I just could not ignore.
Yes, it’s true that when you care for your heart, mind, and spirit, you will glow from within.
Here are 3 ways I have embraced my light:
- Self-Acceptance: I’ve learned that embracing myself fully and unconditionally is key to allowing my inner light to shine brightly. Accepting myself, flaws and all, has been a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By practicing self-compassion and self-forgiveness, I’ve cultivated a deep sense of inner peace and confidence knowing that I am worthy of love and respect exactly as I am.
- Surrounding Myself with Supportive Women: I’ve found immense strength and inspiration in cultivating relationships with other supportive and uplifting women. These connections provide a nurturing environment where I can share my joys, challenges, and dreams without fear of judgment. Being part of communities or groups where women celebrate and empower each other has amplified my inner light and created a powerful network of support that uplifts me on my journey.
- Choosing Joy: I’ve made a conscious decision to prioritize joy and positivity in my life, even amidst life’s challenges. Engaging in activities that bring me happiness and fulfillment, spending time with loved ones, and practicing gratitude have all contributed to nurturing my inner light. By reframing my mindset to focus on the blessings and opportunities present in each moment, I’ve cultivated a contagious energy that uplifts and inspires those around me, allowing my inner light to shine brightly.
Today, I am a testament to the power of embracing your brilliance and shining anyway. I’ve faced challenges, setbacks, and moments of doubt, but my light has remained unwavering through it all. I’ve learned that my radiance is not something to be hidden or suppressed—it’s a gift to be celebrated and shared with the world. I now accept compliments about my “glow” without hesitation.
I invite you to join me on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment. How will you let your light shine today?
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Nita says
This was right on time. Thank you!
Letty says
Thank you.
Bertha says
Your expressions hit home with me and every woman l know. Let your light shine!
Tonee Shelton says
Hi, Dr. Alisha. I appreciate you so much for writing this. Often time we forget that the light within us can illuminate an entire world simply because of internal or external doubts. Thank you for this affirmation.
I will let my light shine by continuing to use my words through poetry to help and heal women.
Karin Booker Dancy says
“Your light will irritate a lot of unhealed people…shine anyway.” Dr. Reed, your guiding quote is everything (fist bumping you). So often, women – especially Black women – are expected to hang back and dim ourselves. Your words remind us to heed that song many of us learned as children: “This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shiiiiiiine …” Thank you for encouraging us to embrace and let ourselves shine each day, xoxo
Emily says
I’m learning that #2 is so important. That nonjudgmental support system keeps you uplifted or grounded when you need.
Laquietta Patrease Butler says
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Laquietta Patrease Butler says
This passage is so important because often our lights have been dimmed by those who are dark or simply jealous of the light we house. Thanks for choosing joy and choosing to share that joy regardless of others. Self acceptance is key.
Sabreen says
This spoke to me! Thank you!
CK says
Love this!!
Dr. Tandra Taylor says
Your writing is very calming. #1 sits very well with my heart. Im learning day by day to look at situations in a different light and choosing to accept the flaws about myself that I can’t change. I look to God for everything and thats what gives me peace and a calm spirit when I feel as though everything around me is tumbling. Thank you for this. I don’t know how I ended up here, but I needed to read this passage in this moment.
Dr. Tandra Taylor